Hi Nicky,
Thank you so much for your help in tracing my family.
I heard from a Ben Lowe some years ago, who told me his great grandmother was the grandaughter of Frederick John Vallender & Harriet ,she was possibly his 3rd/4th wife.
Harriet died when her daughter Gertrude Maude Cresswell Vallender was still quite young, Gertude was then brought up by her step sister .
Gertrude married Henry Oswald Frost .
If you wish to email me its jacqueline.tiernan@sky.com
Please keep in touch.
Cheers Jackie