Hi

Just a shot in the dark!

This birth on http://ww3.gloucestershire.gov.uk/bmd/MainMenu.aspx

GARDNER John William GARDNER GARDNER BUTLER 1854 Gloucester Gloucester, Haresfield 4

and this Thomas Gardner/possibly Butler marriage in the Birmingham area on FreeBMD:

Marriages Sep 1842

BAYLIS Amelia Aston 16 262
BUTLER Mary Aston 16 262
EDGE George James Aston 16 262
GARDNER Thomas Aston 16 262
JEVON Reuben Paul Aston 16 262
SMITH Moses Aston 16 262
SPEAK Eleanor Aston 16 262
TIMMINS Sarah Bayliss Aston 16 262

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