Been looking at British History on Line - maps (dated 1891) - and called up Cinderford which seems close to Flaxley

Mpas: Ordnance Survey 1:10,560 Epoch 1 > England - Gloucestershire > 031/S3

and zoomed in can see The Grove - with buildings - Mill Grove is just above it & Temple - Loads of places names, even trees are marked - etc. can see Boseley (Corn Mill) - so Grove Farm should be 'lurking somewhere'

Trying to find my way round this area looking for various farms, but not sure about the local area and keep clicking on various 'squares' -

Have sent The Grove page to Kath.