I have checked the census for Emma Meek and found another one aged 5 born Longhope, listed with her grandparents Thos and Sarah Hayward, which could mean that her mother had been married before? Have you a copy of the marriage cert, which would confirm this theory? Or the grandmother had re-married, so she (the granny could have been either a Meek, or a Simmonds/Symonds, you need to look at both names)