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Thomas HIGHLEY - 1869 - mother's maiden name BUTT

Abel John HIGHLEY - 1872 - mother's maiden name BUTT

Margaret HIGHLEY - 1875 - ditto

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Ancestry has

Abel John HIGHLEY's (Uk, Railway Employment Records, 1833-1956)
Age: 29

Birth Date: 3 December 1872

Residence Date: 22 October 1902

Company: Great Western

Occupation: Carman

Absonded 22 October 1912

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Julie (aged 20 on the 1871 census) and 32 on the 1881 census, says, she was born Lea Bailey, Hereford