Thankyou both for your offers! I'd be very grateful indeed to see a photo if the grave is identifiable.

I've had the experience of walking for hours around a graveyard trying to find a grave without knowing where exactly I should be looking, so I know what a "needle in a haystack" kind of challenge it can be...

From what I know about Joseph and Fanny they weren't exactly short of money (I wish the family could still say that now!) so I imagine they would have had a headstone of some kind. Just hope it hasn't crumbled to nothing as these things have a habit of doing.

Thanks again

Paula